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Opinion: Put self-care on your to do list

After a long, exhausting day of school and another three hours of homework, I curl up on my bed and wrap blankets around me like I am a burrito, ready to settle down and relax before going to sleep. As I open my computer and begin playing another episode of my new favorite show “Criminal…
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May 19, 2021

After a long, exhausting day of school and another three hours of homework, I curl up on my bed and wrap blankets around me like I am a burrito, ready to settle down and relax before going to sleep.

As I open my computer and begin playing another episode of my new favorite show “Criminal Minds,” a thought crosses my mind: “Should I be doing something more productive with my time?“

For me, the meaning of the word productive has drastically changed during the coronavirus pandemic. Being productive no longer means completing all of the homework due tomorrow. Now, being productive means getting ahead, completing assignments that haven’t been assigned, or teaching myself concepts that haven’t yet been introduced.

At this rate and by this definition of productive, I’ll never be finished with anything. There will always be more to do.

There are 10 minutes left in the episode, and just before Agent Aaron Hotchner and his team are about to storm into the suspect’s house, I unfortunately say goodbye and close the browser tab.

After placing my computer on my desk, I grab the book “Of Mice and Men” for English class. I think to myself, “I should get ahead on reading, right?”

Moving my eyes across the page, I try focusing on the story in front of me, but I am too tired to think straight. “Shouldn’t I just go relax? It’s important to take care of myself, right?”

Grabbing my computer and nestling back in my bed, I resume the intriguing episode. While breathing deeply and watching TV, I cannot help but remind myself of the homework I still need to complete. I force myself to stay cuddled in my bed, but not even the satisfaction of watching Agent Hotchner and Agent Rossi solve a crime can assuage the guilt I suffer in the back of my mind.

This extreme and unending obsession with being productive is what experts have termed toxic productivity. This is certainly not a problem everyone encounters, some even experience the opposite.

In an interview with the Huffington Post, Simone Milasas, a business coach and author of “Joy and Business” said, “Toxic productivity can make us feel like a failure if we’re not constantly ‘doing.’ When toxic productivity is leading your life, you judge yourself every day for what you haven’t done, rather than looking at what you have accomplished.”

Dr. Julie Smith, a clinical psychologist who is an online educator and owner of a private practice in England, explained in a BBC video, “We also have a wider cultural problem in our society. That pressure to be constantly available online and on social media means that the world almost has a constant view into our lives. That compels pressure to appear a certain way to family, friends, or potential employers. We are bombarded with outbursts every day that encourage ourselves to measure our self-worth on our productivity.”

Our society is obsessed with productivity, which encourages both students and adults to value completing work over their mental health. Constant productivity is seen as a gateway to success and happiness. 

However, the pandemic did not invent this damaging need to be productive all the time. It instead intensified the pre-existing problem that stems from a society that praises being constantly productive. Societal pressures to always exceed expectations have caused this toxic cycle.

Kathryn Esquer, a psychologist and founder of the Therapist Network, explained in an interview with the Huffington Post, “We could have used our free time to rest, recharge, and restore ourselves, but many of us filled those hours with more work as a way to feel worthy, fulfilled, and in control.”

Others believe that because all of our routines were on pause, people began to have a large amount of free time that they were not sure how to best use.

For my entire life, I have asked myself the question “What should I be doing right now?” No matter what day it is, Christmas or a Saturday, I am constantly putting pressure on myself to work. There is hardly ever a time where I do nothing.

Dealing with the cycle of toxic productivity has been difficult for me during the pandemic. It has caused me, along with many others, to judge myself based on the tasks I complete throughout the day. The solution to this problem is not to stop working hard or finishing assignments. Instead, I need to lead my own life, and not allow work or productivity to lead it, but this is easier said than done. 

Dr. Joanne Barron, a psychologist who practices in Sherman Oaks and Westwood told the Grey Journal, “I was reading somewhere that what Americans have done when we entered the pandemic is work. We work more, we’re on Zoom all the time and now, because we’re not going home at the end of the day, we’re working from morning to night. When we’re not working, many people are feeling depressed. Their identity is so tied up with what they do, what they produce, and what they achieve, so when they’re unable to do that, they’re really having a crisis about identity.”

Even when I try to relax and take a break, I am overwhelmed by guilt. To eliminate these negative feelings, I have taken the question “What should I be doing right now?” and replaced it with “What do I want to do now?” and “What do I get to do now?”

When I sit down to do homework after school, I acknowledge that the assignments I have to do are time-consuming and frustrating at times, but I also remind myself of how fortunate I am to have an education. By associating assignments with positive thoughts, I gradually eliminate the mentality of having to work.

Simone Milasas said in an interview with the Huffington Post, “You need to find out if you are really choosing what is important to you, or choosing what you think you should do or what society has told you should be important. So much of toxic productivity is doing what we think we should be doing instead of choosing what is true for us.”

Not overworking myself, being patient with myself, and putting self-care on my to-do list have been most rewarding and “true for me.”

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